This diagram represents the four developmental phases with the twelve energetic relationship models the soul will encounter within these phases. Each phase has its benefits and its perils. In the game of life the soul will be battling the forces that will seek to consume you and not allow you to escape these regions. Each region has an adjustor whose job is to assist and help guide you through the energetic phases. Your sun sign indicates the phase that you are in and the type of adjustor that you are seeking to teach you the lessons required to move forward. If you cannot find an adequate adjustor then your soul falls prey to a world of perpetual darkness.

What are the spiritual lessons you must learn?

Starting with the blue, if you are: Aries/Taurus/Gemini, the soul is being adjusted or mal-adjusted in accepting and being comfortable in the body it is going to inhabit. This is the developing child.

Going counter clockwise to the yellow, if you are: Cancer/ Leo/Virgo, the soul is learning the lesson of cooperation, loyalty, responsibility and representation to, for and from the group. It is seeking relationships that indicate that it belongs within a group. If mal-adjusted it sees that the group rejects, will ostracize, or will not be capable of being responsible or representing the needs of the individual.

With orange, if you are: Libra/Scorpio/ Sagittarius, the soul is seeking to be transformed through relationships. It is learning how to merge with another person where the souls can become one through attraction, choice, commitment and belief. This is a very crucial phase that may block the soul from getting to its spiritual truth. This is where Adam and Eve fell from grace. This is where the soul seeks to have their partner become an adjustor based upon the previously unresolved issues
that it had from phase 1 and 2, in which case the individual may be seeking a relationship model that replaces the adjustor that was inadequate in those phases. Unable to see the true nature of the connection, they often become a virus that keeps the soul ftom greater spiritual knowledge.

The green (Capricorn/Aquarius/ Pisces), is the soul being converted to be a component within the collective idea. The soul is regulated by beliefs, laws and collective agreement. It culminates with Pisces, which represents how the mother is
devoted to the child based on the social views of the collective.

Each person's chart has these energetic models in different places on the chart. It represents the tools and methodologies an individual is using to navigate a particular region of life.

There is an order by which our mind uses these phases and the myths they produce. It is the hierarchy, or order that you use these phases in combination with each other that creates the phenomena that you construct your experiences and life circumstances through.

For an example, if you are in an adult relationship with someone, that is phase 3 (which is: with you by choice, with you by commitment and with you by beliefs) but you're processing it through the energetic myth of phase 1 (which is: the need I have for you to be "for me", to be somebody "to me", or someone that is "about me", then you see separation based upon a person responding to your emotional cues and whether the person shares the same sense of time in resolving your sense of urgency. It means that you are too narcissistic to understand the needs of your partner.

You may impose your myth and how you measure time (which is their ability to respond immediately to your emotional cues). You may still be trying to receive or be supplemented for your own inabilities, and too immature to make a choice, be committed or operate through beliefs. You are not using that information to measure the interaction. At this stage your behavior could be perceived as an emotional disorder.

You may be getting involved first and then judge why you made a choice. Whereas the third phase understands their choices prior to involvement and takes responsibility for making their choices.

Unless you have an extremely understanding partner this could create an unbalanced relationship because phase 1 is seeking a parent/child model, and phase 3 should be an adult/adult model. And they both have different myths and a different way of measuring time and space.

If you're still seeking this energy
(for me, to me or about me) as an adult it means you are operating in states of dependency and will indicate the degree of difficulty that you had getting those needs met when you were young. The intimacy pattern and the degree that intimacy allows the emotional template to measure what is taking place will become a set up to act out because this template has little expectation of actually receiving from a partner, but has a compulsive need to seek it from their partner.

If you have a phase 2 approach (which is when someone is: part of me, with me or with me responsibly) the recipe for success is limited by the process of trying to mature as an individual and not being fully developed to be responsible for your own participation.

When you make a choice you're able to be responsible for that choice, but when you're still in phase two as an adult you're too caught up in how the group views your choices, and then you can't be yourself because you still rely on acceptance from your group. So it creates a dilemma of what you are using to measure time and space and connectivity.

Also, in phase 2 you may still be evolving through the family, friends and group stage, seeking support for your own development by subconsciously mimicking and emulating the group but, consciously perceiving you're making different choices. And/or you're getting involved with people who have not resolved their family and group issues.


What are the lessons your soul is learning in this current incarnation and how does it reflect in the type of experiences you will repeatedly have versus the ones you consciously have, until you master this energetic region of life? It will be dramatically impacted by the people and situations you choose.
Within these four phases of human, social and spiritual mastery there are twelve energetic principles that must be mastered in order to direct our energy with maturity and consciousness.

How well we have developed through the 12 energetic principles becomes how we have been constructed and regulated to participate in life. Mastering these principles means that we can operate from higher levels of consciousness and higher degrees of participation in life to satisfy the many different emotional, physical, sexual, philosophical, psychological, social, economic and spiritual drives that we have.

First you must realize that you are an animal just like everyone else you come in contact with. Each one of us as mammals are trying to achieve universal goals:to be loved, to be loved by our mothers, to belong to our family and friends, to be able to express ourselves as ourselves, to find love and partnership, creating our own unique sense of family, and to be socially and financially secure.

There are systems that are being added to you on a continuous basis—organically, socially, and environmentally that you are dynamically processing through.

There are the systems of: the physical body, emotions, actions, family, school, conformity, belonging, independence, work, group consciousness, mutuality through choice, commitment through education, training, conditioning, beliefs, obligation, creativity, the natural environment, the psychological environment, the providing environment, and so on.

Each of these systems then produces a person within you who has either learned or not learned to operate and cope within the different worlds or matrixes that organize your existence.

As you evolve through each system, you are dynamically seeking or giving certain types of energy. These energies mature developmentally—layer by layer—as you progress on your soul’s journey.

The purpose of the Directing Energy pages are to help you assess yourself and others, and the approach that is being used in a particular quadrant to achieve the needs of that quadrant. Also, to understand whether or not the use of a particular energy is appropriate to get to the required outcomes for benefit.

For example, the lower half of the astrological wheel (phase 1 and phase 2) is the maturing of the physical body. It starts with "for me" energy in which you are initiating to have a response from another to satisfy or complete your need. Evolving to the "with you responsibly" energy in which the person has matured to no longer need to be supplemented, but is operating energetically in an interdependent way, or where they can take responsibility to represent what the group values without being prompted, except by the conditions that will drive the individual into activity.

The upper half of the astrological wheel (phase 3 - 4) is maturing of your social, spiritual and conscious self. Here you merge with another in choice, commitment and belief. You also dissolve your physical and organic perceptions to be a symbolic identity that has social roles and responsibilities of obligation and duty, collective consciousness and the ability to be a devoted person to serve the needs of others.

In this evolution our soul is integrating its physical experience of what we tell ourselves, with our symbolic personality of what we are told, along with our social obligations, into a physical/symbolic and then spiritual/symbolic identity, ultimately giving up what we perceive to align to what we are told as the truth.

The impact from each of these developmental phases and your ability to master various relationship models become templates which are patterns that you develop that become replicated interactive dynamics that you will use when you enter into a similar situation or future relationship model.

Hierarchy of Directing Energy

For me / To me

About me / Part of me

With me

With you responsibly

With you in choice, commitment, and in belief

With you in obligation and duty

With you in collective agreement

With you in tradition and service

Energetic Relationship Models
Each of these perspectives has a distinct human interactive pattern associated with it and a relationship model that symbolizes the emotional, physical, social/symbolic and psychological energetic exchanges that are necessary to attain completion and sustainable security. To understand what relationship model you are dynamically seeking and the expectation from the region that relationship model exists in is to understand where these energetic needs are being placed within your chart - whether it is the first, second, third or fourth life phase, the appropriateness of your expectation as well as the promise that each phase offers as security.

It's important to understand the energy you have not mastered because it will reduce your ability to perceive or receive the benefit of the quadrant. The first quadrant in blue is about mastering the interaction necessary for receiving devotion. The second quadrant in yellow is mastering the interactions that are required to belong. The third quadrant is orange is mastering the interactions of merging with another. The fourth quadrant in green is mastering the necessary interactions, knowledge and behavior to be socially viable. The inability to master these energies will create distortion, a sense of loss, and also a sense of failing.

Devotion: Mother and Child Relationship Patterns

Model One: symbolized by Pisces to Aries Our energy is initiating to our mother and we are dynamically seeking energy of devotion that is just for me. Our feelings are attempting to solicit the necessary responses to make us feel complete. We then convert the responses to us to represent self judgement / acceptance or rejection.

Model Two: symbolized by Taurus We are seeking to stand on our own but need supplementation from the mother to assist in our completion. We are dynamically seeking the mother to be someone to me. This is an independent/dependent stage where we may have battles trying to establish our own inner sense of self.

Model Three: symbolized by Gemini
In the about me phase, we begin to conceptualize and direct our energy through language. We can verbalize our emotions and perceptions to those we direct our energy towards. At the same time our energy is being redirected through language to conform to the beliefs, traditions, rituals and rules for acceptable and unacceptable behavior, according to the group's view. This is where one can be punished for not conforming. This is the first phase of conscious agreements where we are able to recognize those who are symbolically connected to us such as: relatives, neighbors and friends of the family.

Belonging: Father, Mother and Family Relationship Patterns

Model Four: symbolized by Cancer
Having conformed to trusting the group we are now learning the roles, rules and hierarchal relationships that exists within the group and the relationship of the group to the greater community that we are living in.As we get older and can add our own friends and peer groups we learn to follow the way of the family grouping or to find a different way of involving ourself in the community or larger group. The same process of conforming, or not conforming, is based upon trusting that the greater community can take our needs into consideration. If not, we may not conform to the larger community. This could create authority issues and anti-social behavior. This part of me stage is where we are initiating to be cared for and can care for others within the group. It also represents group judgement, acceptance or rejection.

Model Five: symbolized by Leo
We are individualizing away from mom and dad and start to add relationships of attraction where people are now "with me". We often come together for sex, companionship, or social affiliations. Within our family we are testing our independent identity, yet we are still reliant circumstantially on them.

Model Six: symbolized by Virgo
We are not dependent on the group but live more interdependently with the group. Having adopted the values and principles of the group I can represent and take responsibility for certain aspects of group life, assisting others by supplying supplemental energy to the beliefs of the family. Virgo's are able to represent the values of the group and having mastered the ego can be with you in responsibility.

Merging with others beyond the original family...Relationship Patterns

Model Seven: symbolized by Libra
We have the ability to merge with others responsibly and move beyond our original grouping, so we can be with you in choice, not out of need. This is where we initiate actions toward another and can be judged and/or rejected. Libras seek to be transformed by their choices. This is the typical Cinderella syndrome which was serving the family and seeking to be transformed by love to her real life.

Model Eight: symbolized by Scorpio
We merge through binding agreements to be one. We can define, articulate and create the nature of the union with another person. In this stage we are interdependent and stop battling for our own identity because we are not meant to stand alone. We are with you through commitment. We are also seeking commitment.

Model Nine: symbolized by Sagittarius
We now dissolve ourselves to represent a belief system and allow our energy to be directed by what we believe. In the hierarchy of directing energy we are with you in beliefs which means our agreements and beliefs supercede our physical perceptions, emotions and feelings. If we do not conform to belief systems we run the risk of being persecuted. I like to live within structured orders in which there is a clear sense of a hierarchal pattern of consistency. I want to live by what I am told and I want you to respond to what I tell you.

Symbolically Representing a Thought or Belief by Relationship Patterns

Model Ten: symbolized by Capricorn
With the underpinnings of beliefs we are mature enough to be with you through obligation and duty. We can operate independently as a committed component to an external reality, and we convert ourselves into a symbolic being who is responsible with you for what sustains us and our group.

Model Eleven: symbolized by Aquarius
We are with you in symbolic collective agreement for the creation of our cultural, social, political and economic reality, and we do this with beliefs, responsibility, intention and creativity. We can construct a perspective that encompasses many ideas, people, situations, and circumstances.

Model Twelve: symbolized by Pisces
In this stage of directing energy we have reached a state of consciousness in which we can serve and give energy out, based on another person's need. Through my conscious involvement, we are with you through tradition and service, being devoted to the continuation and advancement of our beliefs and values.

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